Confidence is sensed when you walk in the room, and so is the lack of it

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In order to succeed it takes a certain amount of confidence. Let’s think about this, before any great musician, or dancer, or doctor became the best in their field they had to place a certain of amount of confidence in themselves in order to believe they could.

3 Confidence Boosters

Go the extra mile: Take some extra time in the morning when you get dress, where you have to say to yourself before anyone else gets a chance, “You look good!” Don’t always look for validation from others to like your look, when you love it, that love radiates and people can feel your confidence in yourself and they too will love it.

Be prepared: Jennifer Lopez once noted that she is insecure when she isn’t prepared. When you aren’t prepared for your tasks you aren’t at your very best. You feel inferior to the others around you whom are more knowledgeable. You aren’t as confident as you would be if you were prepared and eventually it shows.

Fake it until you make it: You can’t prepare for every single thing or know every single thing you should know. But even if you don’t, show a little confidence in your voice, people will most likely believe you or respect you for not cracking under pressure when you didn’t know something. As the saying goes dazzle them with brilliant or bethel them with BS (Bull sh*t).

It won’t hurt to try.

Don’t be foolish enough to think that anything you want will come to you….

“I don’t want to sit around and hope good things happen. I want to make them happen.”  -Drew Barrymore

“I don’t want to sit around and hope good things happen. I want to make them happen.” -Drew Barrymore

Too much wishing, not enough moving, don’t be foolish enough to think that anything you want will come to you. Go make it happen. Actress, film director, and producer Drew Barrymore once said, “I don’t want to sit around and hope good things happen. I want to make them happen.” Adopt Barrymore’s attitude towards life. That job isn’t going to come to you; school isn’t going to move around all your needs. YOU have to make things happen for you, or not…

The more and more you put positive thoughts in your mind, the more they become you. At BNS we are daily hitting you with positivity to begin your day with the right attitude to make things happen. It’s cognitive that we learn to filter what we allow our minds to constantly put in. Start by putting positive thoughts in daily. One method is to screen shot your favorite quotes that way you can go back and look at them, imbedding them into your mind after you seen them numerous of times.

And remember everyday counts.

Will the real Eric Thomas please stand up?!

A remarkable story by Eric Thomas, life changing motivation is what this is. Watch it as many times as you need to. Thomas lets us know we have to want our success; no one can want it for us. Thomas being homeless to becoming a college graduates now going to get his PHD.

Video Hightlights:
“To be able at any moment, to sacrifice who you are for what you will become.”-E.T
“The time you use on your cell phone, you can use to be successful, when your cell phone brings you nothing but a bill.” -E.T
“When you want to be successful as bad as you want to breathe, then you’ll be successful”. –E.T
“Pain is temporary… At the end of pain is success”-E.T

“WORK HARD, AND YOU CAN HAVE WHATEVER IT IS THAT YOU WANT!”-E.T