Confidence is sensed when you walk in the room, and so is the lack of it

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In order to succeed it takes a certain amount of confidence. Let’s think about this, before any great musician, or dancer, or doctor became the best in their field they had to place a certain of amount of confidence in themselves in order to believe they could.

3 Confidence Boosters

Go the extra mile: Take some extra time in the morning when you get dress, where you have to say to yourself before anyone else gets a chance, “You look good!” Don’t always look for validation from others to like your look, when you love it, that love radiates and people can feel your confidence in yourself and they too will love it.

Be prepared: Jennifer Lopez once noted that she is insecure when she isn’t prepared. When you aren’t prepared for your tasks you aren’t at your very best. You feel inferior to the others around you whom are more knowledgeable. You aren’t as confident as you would be if you were prepared and eventually it shows.

Fake it until you make it: You can’t prepare for every single thing or know every single thing you should know. But even if you don’t, show a little confidence in your voice, people will most likely believe you or respect you for not cracking under pressure when you didn’t know something. As the saying goes dazzle them with brilliant or bethel them with BS (Bull sh*t).

It won’t hurt to try.

We salute you, Sean “Diddy” Combs (Salute Wednesdays)

We salute Sean "Diddy" Combs for a career of longevity and new deals.

We salute Sean “Diddy” Combs for a career of longevity and new deals.

Music mogul Sean “Diddy” Combs has decided to conquer another industry; the television industry. Starting a channel called Revolt TV, dedicated to the music lovers. Comb’s career of longevity after 20 plus years is still relevant and forever present. He continues to do what he imagines he can do. Starting a network is huge, and he is to be applauded for his accomplishes. He is an example of truly ambitious and courageous. We Salute You.

Why is there a Kardashian Empire?

Why there is a kardashian empire? Kris Jenner momager...

Why there is a kardashian empire? Kris Jenner momager…


The Kardashian name brings about controversial topic because of how the family became to be the famous “Keeping up with the Kardashians” (Kim K and Ray J Sex tape), but the Kardashians wouldn’t be famous if the world didn’t support them; many buy their products, and have tuned into their show once or twice. But Kris “Mother Kardashian” Jenner is a GENIUS! She took what could have been her daughter Kim Kardashian’s downfall and turned it into a triumph for the entire family.

There isn’t many industries that the Kardashian’s haven’t touched; Fashion, Make-up, television, movies, etc. All six of Jenner’s children are millionaires with help from her their momager (mom/manager). How the Kardashians came about isn’t the idea way to earn fame and fortune, but what is notable is how they turned what could been a catastrophic event for the family into a benefit. In no way are we condoning doing “whatever it takes to reach the top” but we are indeed saying see the best in every situation in your life. Everyone makes mistakes but everyone has the CHOICE to let it destroy them or they can see the best in the situation. So which will you do?

Fun fact: In 2012 E! Network and the Kardashians signed a 40 million dollars contract for three more years of their show “Keeping up with the Kardashians”, reported by TMZ.com making history as the most profitable deal in reality T.V history.

Will the real Eric Thomas please stand up?!

A remarkable story by Eric Thomas, life changing motivation is what this is. Watch it as many times as you need to. Thomas lets us know we have to want our success; no one can want it for us. Thomas being homeless to becoming a college graduates now going to get his PHD.

Video Hightlights:
“To be able at any moment, to sacrifice who you are for what you will become.”-E.T
“The time you use on your cell phone, you can use to be successful, when your cell phone brings you nothing but a bill.” -E.T
“When you want to be successful as bad as you want to breathe, then you’ll be successful”. –E.T
“Pain is temporary… At the end of pain is success”-E.T

“WORK HARD, AND YOU CAN HAVE WHATEVER IT IS THAT YOU WANT!”-E.T

Salute wednesdays: Angelina Jolie

Angelina Jolie post-double mastectomy(removeable of BOTH breasts) surgery.

Angelina Jolie post-double mastectomy(removeable of BOTH breasts) surgery.

Here at BNS, we salute Angelina Jolie for her courage and bravery. Jolie this year went into surgery for a double mastectomy (Removable of BOTH breasts; partially or completely). After testing for a cancerous gene and watching a mother and aunt die from the disease, Jolie decided to reduce her chances. By exercising her choice to choose to take a form of precaution, and showing women there is something you can do. We all have been affected by breast cancer or cancer in general in some shape or form, and it’s great to see someone taking risk to reduce their chances. And even though Jolie may not be the first to do so with this surgery, her influence on the world is large and she touches so many other lives. We salute you Angelina Jolie.