Staying In Your OWN Lane!

 

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Let’s stress the importance of staying in your own LANE, meaning worrying less about what other people has going on, because the successes or failures of others benefit you. On their accolades they aren’t going to mention you as a contributor just for being a witness to watching them succeed, so learn to focus on you and stay in your own lane. But know when it’s necessary to go into others lane  because it takes some switching of lanes to get a head sometimes. Switching lanes is networking and knowing when to ask for help; so someone can let you in their lane. Find the right lanes to switch into because switching over in others lanes don’t always get you ahead but don’t be afraid not too, because a leap of faith is needed when moving forward. 

 

Confidence is sensed when you walk in the room, and so is the lack of it

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In order to succeed it takes a certain amount of confidence. Let’s think about this, before any great musician, or dancer, or doctor became the best in their field they had to place a certain of amount of confidence in themselves in order to believe they could.

3 Confidence Boosters

Go the extra mile: Take some extra time in the morning when you get dress, where you have to say to yourself before anyone else gets a chance, “You look good!” Don’t always look for validation from others to like your look, when you love it, that love radiates and people can feel your confidence in yourself and they too will love it.

Be prepared: Jennifer Lopez once noted that she is insecure when she isn’t prepared. When you aren’t prepared for your tasks you aren’t at your very best. You feel inferior to the others around you whom are more knowledgeable. You aren’t as confident as you would be if you were prepared and eventually it shows.

Fake it until you make it: You can’t prepare for every single thing or know every single thing you should know. But even if you don’t, show a little confidence in your voice, people will most likely believe you or respect you for not cracking under pressure when you didn’t know something. As the saying goes dazzle them with brilliant or bethel them with BS (Bull sh*t).

It won’t hurt to try.

Who is that person that challenges you to get up and move forward?

Let's move forward together..

Let’s move forward together..


Have someone in mind? If so, keep them around. And if you don’t we at BNS are here for you.Let’s move forward together! Moving forward daily is key. You don’t have to take big leaps everyday, as long as you make a single step everyday. Take your time and make sure you are making the right steps in your life.

Note: At the end of your day, we should be able to say because of what we did today we are a step closer to where we’re going in life.

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We want to know you favorite song! So tell us…

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What is a song that gives you chills, makes you happy, makes you sad, changes your mood, moves you? YOUR FAVORITE SONG!

That one song that you connect to so much, it is so relatable that it becomes your song and for a moment it is your song, your story, your life. It radiates through your body.

Do you know why your favorite song is your favorite song???

We at BNS, want to hear!

We salute you, Sean “Diddy” Combs (Salute Wednesdays)

We salute Sean "Diddy" Combs for a career of longevity and new deals.

We salute Sean “Diddy” Combs for a career of longevity and new deals.

Music mogul Sean “Diddy” Combs has decided to conquer another industry; the television industry. Starting a channel called Revolt TV, dedicated to the music lovers. Comb’s career of longevity after 20 plus years is still relevant and forever present. He continues to do what he imagines he can do. Starting a network is huge, and he is to be applauded for his accomplishes. He is an example of truly ambitious and courageous. We Salute You.