Confidence is sensed when you walk in the room, and so is the lack of it

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In order to succeed it takes a certain amount of confidence. Let’s think about this, before any great musician, or dancer, or doctor became the best in their field they had to place a certain of amount of confidence in themselves in order to believe they could.

3 Confidence Boosters

Go the extra mile: Take some extra time in the morning when you get dress, where you have to say to yourself before anyone else gets a chance, “You look good!” Don’t always look for validation from others to like your look, when you love it, that love radiates and people can feel your confidence in yourself and they too will love it.

Be prepared: Jennifer Lopez once noted that she is insecure when she isn’t prepared. When you aren’t prepared for your tasks you aren’t at your very best. You feel inferior to the others around you whom are more knowledgeable. You aren’t as confident as you would be if you were prepared and eventually it shows.

Fake it until you make it: You can’t prepare for every single thing or know every single thing you should know. But even if you don’t, show a little confidence in your voice, people will most likely believe you or respect you for not cracking under pressure when you didn’t know something. As the saying goes dazzle them with brilliant or bethel them with BS (Bull sh*t).

It won’t hurt to try.

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Video: Tyler Perry’s Recipe for Success

Tyler Perry’s Success Story.

Take 4 minutes 36 seconds out of your day to listen to Tyler Perry’s story about success. Even if you have no interest in him, just listen to his story and advice. He is giving away the recipe for success! It just may be what you’ve needed to hear.
Who is Tyler Perry? Homeless guy turned actor, author, screen/playwright, producer, director and songwriter. He has earned 105 million just last year, and continues to sore in the entertainment industry.

Perry’s overall message is narrowing your focus to one idea, and giving that one idea you’re all and never stopping. Then that one idea will eventually open up the rest of your ideas.
-BNS

Tyler Perry’s Video Highlights: “In order to get there (successful), you cannot stop believing in anyway, no matter what anybody says. You have to know it beyond knowing it… “
“It is a feeling (belief)…When something is for you…there is a feeling that is deep down inside you that will not allow you to let it go. It will keep you going when you can’t even keep yourself going. “
“…Tyler Perry’s studio is a place where even dreams believe.”
“There are so many people who go in so many directions, this week their doing this, next week their doing that, next week their doing this… those kinds of people are all over the place I usually try to get them to focus. Focus on one thing, put all of your energy into watering one area.”
“I would not stop believing!”
“Focus on one thing. Make it your priority. And stick with it.”

Will the real Eric Thomas please stand up?!

A remarkable story by Eric Thomas, life changing motivation is what this is. Watch it as many times as you need to. Thomas lets us know we have to want our success; no one can want it for us. Thomas being homeless to becoming a college graduates now going to get his PHD.

Video Hightlights:
“To be able at any moment, to sacrifice who you are for what you will become.”-E.T
“The time you use on your cell phone, you can use to be successful, when your cell phone brings you nothing but a bill.” -E.T
“When you want to be successful as bad as you want to breathe, then you’ll be successful”. –E.T
“Pain is temporary… At the end of pain is success”-E.T

“WORK HARD, AND YOU CAN HAVE WHATEVER IT IS THAT YOU WANT!”-E.T